2 most expensive mistakes men make when with women:
1) Staying With The Wrong Women: This one is definitely THE most expensive a man can EVER make in the dating game. If you disagree with me, just talk to ANY divorce lawyer and ask him how much an average divorce costs a man. Here are some trivial facts:
- 3,000 men get divorced every day - Average divorce costs: $10,000 (legal fees only. Prepare to lose up to half of your total assets in court, including your house and car keys!) - 50 percent of first marriages end in divorce - 60 percent of second marriages end in divorce
If you still don't see this as a threat, then just remember my "Superman" analogy. You can fantasize, pretend you're Superman, and jump off a 10-story building. But when the ground finally hits you, it's going to HURT.
Listen. I get emails EVERY DAY from email that have finally "figured out" the biggest mistake they have EVER made in their lives was marrying the "wrong" woman. Trust me, these guys REALLY regret it. In fact, I can cite AT LEAST a couple dozen of RECENT examples in which one of my readers have been sCREWED OVER by an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend. (Like the guy who got his boat stolen from a girl he met over the net!)
Now...you may be thinking..."But ...I am still pretty young...I just want to fool around and I am not going to marry anyone yet."
Well, in that case, you should STILL be careful. Any one-night-stand or internet material DOES have the potential to turn into a quick marriage and eventually a nasty divorce. This is NOT funny stuff. I have seen it happen MANY times.
Take this advice to your heart, no matter how young you are. This is honestly more important than any pickup line or flirting technique I could teach you. Any dating coaches may promise you gimmicks and many one-night stands. I show you the "reality" of dating: I teach you BOTH the best killer dating techniques AND how to protect yourself in the rough, rough world out there.
2) The second most expensive a man can make is trying to use money to get women.
If you have been reading my newsletter articles for awhile now, you should know by now that it is NEVER a good idea to use money to impress women. NEVER. I will repeat that once again for those of you with money to spend. NEVER.
I don't care if you're a millionare (I have a couple of millionare-readers). If you have to spend money to attract a woman, you're attracting the WRONG women.
Listen. There are specific things you can do that DOES get you A LOT of girls (such as flirting and teasing and being a challenge), and then there are things that either DON'T WORK AT ALL or attract the WRONG kind of women (such as spending money). So why not STOP doing the things that don't work and focus on the things that DO work? You'll even save a few bucks as a result.
If you absolutely positively see the need to spend money because it makes you feel rich, then go build a school in Africa. But don't go chasing after a girl with diamond rings.
Here's an exercise for you big-spenders: From
now on, whenever you go out with a woman, I want you to
pay with CASH instead of with your credit card. I want
you to actually go through the EMOTIONAL PAIN of pulling
$90 out of your wallet for a concert ticket, $40 for
a dinner, and another $15 for 2 drinks. (If you were one
of my "Gold Star" students, you could have just rented
a movie for $5 and made out with her on the couch!